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The western media vilifies it; western women hate it and the feminists are working on laws to forbid it. Importing a foreign wife is often seen as being something dark and socially unacceptable. The media
sensationalizes it when things go wrong instead of reporting on the multiple of examples of "happily ever
afters". Percy Lipinski exposes the truth about this fast growing phenomena of unfulfilled western men. Our current U.S. society tends to emasculate males and thrust norms upon them that are inconsistent with their social, emotional and biological needs.
Join Percy Lipinski as he takes us to the hot spots of the globe for importing wives and explores the following:
Why it is not acceptable but preferable for many women in countries in Asia and Latin America and East Block countries to marry substantially older men.Find out what things men just can't resist in women from the Philippines, Russia, Panama, Columbia, Peru, etc.Travel with Percy on junkets, where available women at socials can out number the men by 25 to 1 or more.Find out why so many men "go native" opting to spend a substantial amount or almost all their time in their new homelands.Percy interviews academics on both side of the debate to get insight into this fast growing social and global phenomenon.Find out why men fall in love with the "families" they marry and watch as Percy interviews the parents of the women about their feelings on their new family members.What about female sex tourism and the opposite gender counterpart? Percy examines this fast growing sub-culture. According to Wikipedia, an estimated 650,000 Western women have engaged in travel sex from 1989 to present, many as repeat customers but how many are legitimately looking for a husband?Percy will also expose the dark side of finding a bride and like anything; there is the right way to do it and the wrong way to do it. Learn the do's and don'ts Learn how to evaluate the women and make sure you are getting what you want Interviews with hundreds of single girls and frustrated men and what drives them to search the globe for happiness. Percy interviews matchmakers and the owners of dating sites both in the West and in foreign countries to discuss the politics and the business side of the phenomenon. Once you catch her, what are the tricks to landing her? Percy talks with immigration lawyers in several countries on current issues and how to make sure that you can meet immigration requirements for your new wife. See how the feminists in the USA are trying to ban and restrict the importation of foreign wives through the International Marriage Broker Regulation act IMBRA which has been characterized as arbitrarily interfering with the constitutional right of free association.
Mail order brides have a rich history. Early settlers in North America sought women that were in short supply. Today, with globalization and where the Internet makes time an borders irrelevant, men are meeting women around the world and are liking what they are finding. With the rise of the Internet and Internet Cafes, they are able to e-mail, live chat and communicate in real time. But unlike the past, this is driven by a number of new social phenomena.
Top ten misconceptions about Foreign Brides
Men cannot get a woman in their own country?
False: Many men simply do not want the type of woman that the west has to offer. In the west, "housewife" has become a "dirty word" and many men simply want the same family structure that they grew up with and saw with their parents and grand parents. They find it refreshing that in other cultures that "family" is still regarded as important. It is disturbing to many women that many of these men who use the services are highly successful and include Doctors, Lawyers, Professionals and business owners (who could take a local wife) but instead have opted for a foreign wife.
Men are looking to rob the cradle?
False: In the politically correct west, which prides itself on not being judgmental, there is an ignorance that in other cultures young women will marry men into their 80s and older. No one says anything when Demi Moore at 42 is married to 27 year old or that Joan Collins is married to a man 32 years younger. It is a double standard - a 2003 study by AARP demonstrated that 34% of all women over 40 were dating younger men and of those, 35% preferred it to dating older men. When women do it - it is cute and they have a boy toy. When men do it they are vilified.
Western men are buying love?
False: There are women, regardless of culture that for them the measure of a man is his wallet. The wants of women are universal - they want someone who will love them, respect them and care form them. The men want someone who will reciprocate and appreciate them.
Men are looking for younger women II?
True and False: Many middle aged men are looking to start a family and in the West the pickings are slim. In western countries, many women are waiting until they have established careers and even then only want a man for basically a sperm donor. That and with so many women deciding not to have children or to go it on their own leaves many men with no options. If you are a 40 something or older man wanting to start a family, a 40 something woman gives you little or no hope - both for children and a traditional family structure.
The women are economic refugees wanting to immigrate to a better country.
False, most women would prefer the man stay there where they can be close to their families.
Men are just going for sex.
False. Sex is readily available anywhere. Men will invest substantial amounts of money and time to find and marry the woman of their dreams. Many Asian and Latin American cultures value virginity and it is common that a relative may go along on dates as a chaperone.
Men want subservient women.
False. Men want simple reciprocity. Many women also want subservient men. This is a problem in any potential relationship.
Foreign brides are marrying for security.
False. All women and men like security. Many foreign countries and thus the women have high academic standards and high levels of graduates. Many of the women are highly educated professionals. They are doing well and quite frankly men appreciate it and find it refreshing to marry someone who is not materialistic and measures life by the car you drive, and brand name clothes and watches. They are practical - like our parents and grand parents were.
Foreign matches do not last.
False. In a scientific study done in the USA, published and funded by the Immigration and Naturalization service in 1999, by Dr. Robert Scholes reported that the divorce rates were "miniscule, 80% of these marriages survive over the years compared to less than 50% of marriages with American women.
Foreign wives are abused.
False. Some cases have been sensationalized and were used as a wedge to tighten up regulations in the USA on importing foreign wives by those with an agenda. Again, importing a foreign wife has been wrongly characterized as verything from slavery and exploitation to sex trafficking. |